Head Trash Clearance: A Powerful Tool for Healing Emotions and Transforming Lives
In this video interview, Marise shares her experience of incorporating Head Trash Clearance into her Family Wellbeing practice in Luxembourg.
In 2018, Marise undertook the Fearless Birthing Training. This is Head Trash Clearance applied to the Pregnancy and Birth journey and is for Pregnancy and Birth Professionals to support families on the journey to parenthood. It suits doulas, midwives, therapists, birth coaches, childbirth educators and pregnancy yoga teachers.
Marise, is a former finance professional turned Healing and Empowerment Coach, and during this conversation she shares her unique journey of self-discovery and how clearing emotional baggage has transformed her personal and professional life. From her work as a doula to her current focus on emotional well-being in the workplace, Marise offers insights into the power of using Head Trash Clearance in the various aspects of our lives.
If you’re considering training in Head Trash Clearance, this conversation may help you to decide if this would be a good fit for you.
Key Topics Discussed
Here are some of the topics we explore during our conversation;
1. The Transformative Effects of Head Trash Clearance
Marise highlights how Head Trash Clearances can bring about profound changes, both physically and mentally. She discusses how clearances have positively impacted her clients’ relationships with their parents, enabled them to enjoy life more, and even helped them stay calm in stressful situations.
2. How Marise Incorporates Head Trash Clearance in Her Practice
As a sleep coach, Marise incorporates Head Trash Clearance into her sessions, allowing her clients to release trapped emotions that may be affecting the the struggles they are coming to her for support. She shares a compelling example of working with a twin mom who initially had mixed emotions about her pregnancy but later experienced joy after a clearance.
3. Aligning Values and Finding Meaningful Work
Marise shares her personal journey of leaving the finance industry in pursuit of something more fulfilling. She emphasises the importance of doing work that aligns with one’s values and acknowledges that not everyone is at the same level of consciousness or awareness when it comes to emotional well-being.
4. Meeting Clients Where They Are At
Marise believes in using approachable language and concepts to communicate with others about emotional work, without overwhelming or alienating them. She highlights the importance of meeting people where they are on their own growth journey, and how Head Trash Clearance’s flexibility enables her to do that.
5. The Simplicity and Flexibility of Head Trash Clearance
Marise discusses the simplicity and flexibility of the Head Trash Clearance method. She explains how she integrates this technique into her sessions, either as a standalone session or as a way to address specific issues that arise during the process. Marise also appreciates the intuitive aspect of blending Head Trash Clearances into the integration.
Marise’s story of transformation and her work as a Wellbeing Practitioner specialist provide us with valuable insights into the power of emotional clearances in our personal growth and well-being. Through her unique approach, she empowers individuals to release emotional baggage and access their highest potential.
About Marise
Here is Marise in her own words;
When I am not working or studying, I enjoy spending time with my husband and my two delightful little girls, born 2011 and 2013. Nowadays, I like to look at the world from a holistic point of view. I appreciate mindful living and the evolution of our planet starting with each individual.
My mother tongue is Afrikaans (similar to Dutch) but we grew up bilingual which can not even come close in comparison to the multilingual capabilities of the average household in Luxembourg where we live today! I adored learning some French when we arrived in Luxembourg and plan to become better acquainted with Luxembourgish in a bit. I promise!
I am passionate about human rights in childbirth, respecting mother nature and at the same time I am fascinated by how the state of our society is shaped by our early imprints from conception, birth and the formative period (pre, perinatal & birth psychology) and the potential for humanity if individuals realise they are never too old to empower themselves to recode their imprints into bliss, their true state. #healbirthtohealearth
I also founded and for 7 years ran the Luxmama Club & Parent Prep asbl in Luxembourg, a not-for-profit organisation raising awareness for universal human rights in birth, perinatal mental health and green parenting through funds raised by offering a variety of inspiring social and educational events for future/new parents.
You can find Marise online here
Conversation Transcript
Alexia [00:00:02]:
Hello, Marise. How you doing?
Marise [00:00:05]:
Hi, Alexia. Yes. I’m great. Thank you. And you Yeah.
Alexia [00:00:08]:
Today, we’re going be talking about, the Head Trash Clearance method, you training in it, and what your journey has been like. As a result of training in it, what your work looks like and how you integrate it into your work. So that if anybody else wants to learn to to introduce this into their work, then they can listen to what you’ve got to say and go, this this is this could be for me, or maybe it’s not for me. So, so that’s what we’re gonna talk about today for those people watching. So, Marise, before we dive into all that, would you mind just sort of sharing a little bit about you and your work? So if you’ve got of an understanding of the the kind of work you do and why you might want to train in Head Trash Clearance.
Marise [00:00:50]:
Sure. So, So back in the day, before I started training with you, I was mainly working in the field with families, and, I called myself a doula, not attending births, but a preconception, prenatal, and parent to doula. So in that whole domain, I’m worth and preparing families from conscious conception already, onwards for the whole journey. And you and I know all the struggles and challenges that the, families can face and, that there are many things you can help them And in the beginning, I was thinking I will only do practical things with them, logistical things, life planning things, but as I to delve deeper into solving their problems, I realized that there’s an emotional component. So that’s what brought me to you. But so I work worked mainly with families. And after I trained with you in 2018, I then, started to work with individuals as well, mostly women. So I’m also I wear both hats, so as a doula, and then also as, self empowerment healer coach is what I like to call myself. And, yes, working with women, raising their business clearing their blocks, helping them succeed in love, life, relationships, and everything. And, Now I wanna add a third hat, and that is, taking all of this experience over the years moving into the well-being in the workplace domain. And, yeah, as a coach trainer, leadership, developer, in in that field now. So currently gearing up for that.
Alexia [00:02:41]:
Okay. Thank you. So why is it that you wanted a train originally? You talked a lot about maybe doing a lot of a practical preparation, but then you really your eyes opened up to the more the emotional aspect of helping women prepare for birth. And so what is it that drew you to the Head Trash Clearance and the Fearless Birthing training?
Marise [00:03:00]:
I think the fact that so I’ll have to back up a little bit before I became a mother for 16 years, I was in finance. So I was in a finance career. So I grew up in a family where we never spoke about emotions. Okay? And, it was a foreign concept to me, even though I was a highly sensitive person I realized later in life, then, I hated my job in finance as a highly sensitive person. That’s not the best use of your talents, I would say. And then when I became a mother, something picked in a switch went off in my brain. And I I was the one that was always reading all the books. The practical books, the preparation, the how do you cook the food for the new baby? How do you do this? How do you what can you not eat in pregnancy? All those things. And then All my mama friends, they always had questions, and I was eager to answer the questions because I read the books. They were too lazy to read the books. And so then once someone told me, but, mate, you are very good at this. You can do this as a job. And so that’s how I then started to focus on the practical things preparing couples for the life change because it all it is a huge organizational life change. And my first training that I did was baby planner certification. And and unfortunately for me, that included that I had to learn more about birth. I didn’t want to. I now know why I didn’t want to because I then realized after reading one of the curriculum books said the thinking woman’s guide to a better verse. And the the case studies in that book was exactly my experience giving birth. And so that fascinated me and I realized that I was sort of a victim of the system, you could say, and I was naive. And, I had to emergency cesareans and that, and I thought before I read that book, I thought that it’s my body that failed. And that I because I was completely disconnected to my own body and my own emotions, my relationship to self, I didn’t even know that that concept existed. And then, so I had to become more aware of birth and started to learn more and more about it. So I was consuming in my free time everything I could fine on birth. And it’s like a whole can of worms I saw. And and I wanted to go deeper and deeper and deeper into what is the best way is to prepare for birth and why I wanted to answer the question for myself. Why did I had that outcome in birth how could I have prepared in a different way not to have that experience? And I saw that more and more there are many women in the community that I work here in Luxembourg in Europe. And online, Globally, that are not having the type of births that they want. And, that really bothered me. And I then started to just dive deeper and deeper, and I started, holistic sleep coaching as well. And holistic sleep coaching means we are not just leaving the baby in the corner to cry it out until they are and then they give up and then they sleep and you’re like, ah, it worked. No. In the holistic sleep coaching, one the majority of the things you have to analyze and investigate, guess what? Is the emotions the stress, the support systems, and the relationship to self of the parent. And here I was asking myself, I grew up in a emotional and neglectful and abusive, family is my parents. They did the best, with what they had, went through. And I didn’t know it at that time. And, when I read that, I was like, what is relationship to self? How am I to analyze this for my clients if I don’t even know it for myself? And so all of these things led me to realize that, my golly, but these things called emotions are so super important. And I made the link to this to this the somatic link back then. I made the link, and I could see that it’s not the mainstream yet that this idea that your emotions your unaddressed unintegrated emotions can have, an effect on your physical health and all those other outcomes, the sleep of your baby, for instance, the the birth you will be able to do or not do the connection to your body, all of that, and I was it was like a moment for me. And, yes, I then just searched all kind of certifications I could find in that direction. Yes. So I didn’t plan when I started to change careers. I never planned to be involved in clearing emotions and, you know, emotional well-being and emotional resilience. I had no even idea what it means. So I was really led to it by breadcrumbs following what I was curious about and wanting to solve problems for my clients and myself in the process.
Alexia [00:08:53]:
So, you mentioned before we came on, we started recording that you started training in some more births focused trainings. I think you mentioned birthing to being. So so did you kind of admit to yourself that maybe you needed to kind of start looking closer at maybe the bigger picture in the context of birth at that point. Is that is that how you made that step across?
Marise [00:09:15]:
Yeah. Absolutely. Because I was I was studying anything I could find that was interesting to solve problems of my clients. And so it was the holistic sleep coaching or was the preparing for birth It was the planning for the life change, and then also I studied becoming us to prepare the relationship of a couple so that their chances of growing together, not growing apart increases, and it was all coming back to emotions. Emotions. So birthing to being is not solely birth focused, but it’s focused on birthing your true being so that you can birth and live and love freely, basically. And, yeah, So very much birth things, that was fascinating me. And I linked it to then my spirituality and that we want to create new generations that are less damaged and that you know, that all fired me up and made me very curious.
Alexia [00:10:19]:
Yes. So, Did you find then that there was a little bit of a, like, what gap potentially if there was a gap did the Fearless Birthing or Head Trash Clearance training offer. You know, where did that fit? When you looked at what you had already training, because it sounds like you’d already done quite a significant amount of training in lots of really good, connected, supported, complimentary areas. Yes. What did you how did you feel that what what did the head crash clearance or the birth and training provide you, where did it sit for you in the context of everything else that you’d already learned?
Marise [00:10:52]:
Yes. So yeah, I was really good at the the practical stuff, you know, the organizational stuff, helping families with that, I also studied how to introduce the solid foods holistically, how to manage the sleep holistically. And and I was taking a much more proactive. What I realized, I’m a bit of a lazy person, so I like shortcuts and efficiency. And so one of the things I saw is, like, for instance, with the sleep is that because I got parents that come after 2 years of not sleeping, and then they would come to me, and then they would want a quick fix to help the baby to just finally sleep after 2 years of not sleeping. And they couldn’t even sit still in the session to focus enough to listen to how we are holistically slowly got a syllabus by first working on them, you know, the I found it very inefficient. So I created programs already in the prenatal. To prepare for that stuff. And then I started to create programs already preconception to prepare everything because the sooner you start, the easier everything onwards is. So I quickly saw that. And then I saw that, that there can be still some blocks specific blocks and fear and triggers around the birth process that can really be, that with that woman widely speak about and that in our media, it’s you know, media is made to make us fearful of birth. That’s the general programming. And I really was interested to find a direct technique how you can zoom in and help to release these fears. And the technique I was studying with birth and to being, which is a huge multidimensional body of work with many, many different processes and using all kinds of different techniques, including psychodrama, visualizations, body tapping, movement, embodiment, and all kinds of things going to your formative trauma, which then obviously may you’re much more open and free to birth if we don’t have all that baggage. Yet I still found after having done that training, that I needed something very specifically because women around me that I work with are asking and saying, oh, I’m still scared shitless of this. And that makes me so angry or fearful or whatever. And I wanted something specific that can zoom in And I was searching searching, and then I found your podcast. And I was taking many walks with my baby, listening to the podcast and being amazed at how, yeah, at this this this technique that you developed and how how amazing it is. I remember, I was driving in my car, and there was one podcast I was listening where you were talking about your the fear that you cleared, the fear of vomiting in the car. And that was, yeah, also interesting and practical.
Alexia [00:14:15]:
So, so the ability to zoom in and get very laser focused. On fears is what grades want to do that. Yeah. Exactly. So so okay. Let’s fast forward then to you decided to do the training, and now you’re on the training. And one an important part of the training for me is making sure that everybody that trains does a lot of personal clearance work on themselves because how can you help somebody else to heal if you’ve not done the inner healing yourself. You need to abort that part yourself. So I insist on quite a significant amount of personal clearance work up front in the training before we evolve on. To other parts. So so let’s just talk about your own personal clearance work. The first time that you really, you know, that that 1st month or so, you really dived in to do personal work. What was that like for you doing that personal clearance work?
Marise [00:15:07]:
Absolutely. Yes. I agree. That’s what I find. So So nice. Now very nice, but back then quite daunting that when you have to start doing all these things for yourself. When you want to help clients and then you’re like, later, you realize, so I have a lot of this stuff. You know? And so that I really, yes, the best practitioners are the one that did a lot of work on themselves and that are constantly growing and asking themselves and questioning themselves and doing a reaction. Was definitely for me a new thing to do back then, though there was that was the right timing for me. So that I also know now that every soul has their own timing. You cannot rush it. When the time is right, they will be ready. And so I was really at that time, to do it. And I was very eager and very diligent in doing it and it it really helped me at that time. The biggest, thing that I was processing was, the relationship with my dad at that time. Because finally, when I realized the relationship we had that I had to put some boundaries and he didn’t like so much those boundaries. And that caused him to, yeah, to exclude me, basically. And that was quite for sensitive person to hear that from, you know, the main figure, male figure in your life is is heavy. I found it extremely emotion. I found it extremely traumatizing and emotional. And at that time, this really, really helped me to specifically, I still have some notes here how I was processing that released 13 March 2019, released trapped anger from dad lodged in my gut when I was five years old for instance. And then 1 April released trap failure from mom lodged in the gut. There was a lot in the gut. Let’s just put it that way. And I was then working already 2 years with a holistic doctor to heal my gut. So all of these healing things came together. And, yes, it’s definitely changed me extremely changed me as a human being, for sure. Yes.
Alexia [00:17:39]:
Yeah. And so did that once because the structure of the training is you do that in the work. Once you use the techniques sufficiently on yourself, then you’re ready to start applying it to other people because when you’re navigating your own head trash, you need to figured out how you’ve unpacked and untangled your own, to be able to start even helping yourself.
Marise [00:17:58]:
Absolutely. And and not just that, your your thinking is more clear. You don’t have so much bullshit or hate rush floating in your head. That’s, yeah, clouding your visions. So I think it’s absolutely essential. Yes.
Alexia [00:18:14]:
Yeah. Yeah. And so when you as you were doing the training and you were going through that, was it was an an an idea started to emerge as to how you would be able to integrate this into your work. Right? Did you start, you know, you came into it, go really want to have its laser way of working. And then as a result of them, the actual doing of it and experiencing it, was there a way of working emerging for you? Oh, I can see how I’m gonna be use this. I might do this with it. This is how I integrate it. If you but something starts with 2 merge fields, you’re going through that process.
Marise [00:18:46]:
So, yeah, I was really excited that
Alexia [00:19:29]:
As you were training, going through the training, will you will you start to get a clear idea as to how you’re gonna be able to integrate this technique into the work that you did?
Marise [00:19:46]:
Yes. Yes. For sure. I immediately knew, right away that most of my this would be something that could be used within because let’s face it. Any service you deliver to expecting on your parents There are always gonna be emotions involved in the process. And it is rare that when people are helping them in practical ways, that they are also able or back then when I started, it was rare that that awareness was there from all kind of practitioners like that. To also have some emotional aspect that they can help with. And I really, really enjoyed that that I can do it online that I could do it in person because I work, people can come to me in my studio called soulspace in Luxembourg or I travel to the family here in Luxembourg if they need that, or I can do it online. So I really like that I can use it like that. And it’s not just a therapeutic technique where you absolutely have to be in person all the time. So that was very flexible and that I could adapt different situations and and different clients. That was amazing. And then the fact that I was not limited to just families. I then later realized wanting to scale my business to work with women in general, going through all their life stages, adult women, that, I can use it on the whole life spectrum, not just the the part of family and preparing for family and coping with family much, much more than that. And so that completely opened everything. And I could combine the other techniques that I learned combine it with that and, how I would the sessions that I would deliver to my clients I would blend different techniques that I would use in one session depending on the client. Yes.
Alexia [00:21:53]:
So what might it typically look like using Head Trash Clearance with your clients? Like, how does that I don’t know, like, how long might that session be. I mean, how how does that kind of what does it practically look like somebody thinking, okay, well, how would this work for me? How is she how are you using it exactly? Like, let’s get a little bit specific.
Marise [00:22:09]:
Okay. So, I do what I the way I work is a bit more my sessions are thing that tend to be a bit longer. I’ve tried to do short sessions. It’s not so much for me. When I when I want to go deep. So I do, 1 a half hour sessions, which is I call as a mini session, when I work with individuals or families, otherwise, a full session is 2 a half hours. I like it because then in that time, we can get a lot done. And it’s only one time for the client to drive rather for 2 a half hours rather than three times for 45 minutes, three times, you know, so it saves time. And, in that session, you can have time to build the relational field to be able to dive deeper and investigate everything that you can play with in that session. And I’d like the fact that the head trash clearance method is how can I say the language is simple and easy to understand that I could I could propose it to any of my clients? No matter their beliefs and their limitations. Okay. They need to be willing to open up a little bit. It doesn’t have to be even so much, right, because I remember in the training, you want told me that we don’t even have to speak too much about the story behind it. It’s about the energy that, that needs to be integrated. And you could even tell the client that thing you’re feeling, and you could even just work on on that, you know. So I love that it’s so flexible that I can blend it in to at different times, at different moments in the actual session, or I can do a session just on with a trash clearance. If that client is more into that, I can really see from the intake form with the client, I can see once I start to see what’s going on in their head, and the initial intake form, and that’s something I also appreciated in your training. Your intake form was quite detailed. And that helped me to create my own around that. And, from there, I get ideas of which technique and which method and from which angle I can go in the sessions with the client. But in general, my clients, I’d wanna do long term sessions with me for since a block of 10, a block of sessions. In the beginning, I would first in the first sessions, I would definitely use the Head Trash Clearance only because it’s a nice entry. It’s a easy entry. Some of the other stuff I use, the birth and to being inside a drama and things like that. People need to really relax first and be able to do role play and stepping to those parts of themselves. And embody it and be comfortable. And that takes time to get there. With the air trash clearance technique, I can immediately in session 1. We can have a 5 minute conversation. Okay. It’s never 5 minutes with me because we have tea first and we connect and but you can, in 5 minutes, narrow down what is the most prominent thing presenting now You can suggest to the client, okay, you don’t even have to explain too much. You can suggest to the client that we’re gonna integrate that. That will help you feel, relief and helping me be more clear headed. And then It’s a energy psychology technique. Most people so far, if I mentioned that, they don’t fall off their chair. Okay. It sounds weird. Energy psychology some people, but but, you know, that flies usually. And then, they they do look quite I I I find it quite funny. Confused. They look at the first time you do it. All the crazy talk. And how the, rational Brian is trying to figure out all these conflicting things you’re saying? Because, yeah, you you use these opposing statements to put forward these different parts in ourselves. And that’s been to neutralize it in the end. So, I find it very nice that in my in the beginning of a program, long term program that I would do with a client, we would always start with the head crash clearance. If they are open for more, their beliefs allow them to open more to do more bodies, souls, spirits, healing, then we go deeper and deeper in the program that we work with. And then at some point, even if we have a journey with specific processes that we will use with my other methods, for instance, the birth and to being method, sometimes they come into my office and we said, okay, we planned to today do a limbic imprint recoding, but then they come and say, shit. My husband is a asshole. And then and I’m like, okay. Let’s pause that. Let’s focus on the asshole today. And then we clear assholes that day. We neutralize assholes by the way. And so I like that I can bring it in at any moment. I can also tell you, like, for instance, how in one session I could not just in the beginning, do a full nice, formal, hair trash clearance. I can also quickly bring it into any moment, a little bite sized chunk of it. For instance, I’m in a 2 a half hour session. We’re doing deep birth into being work. We’re looking at the all the stories they wrote down about childhood, and I’m analyzing it and putting it into the different processes that we will do, splitting some scenes, how we can do the psychodrama to create new stories to integrate into the nervous system. We use embodiment. We use some breath work to get to a slightly altered state before we do all these fun things. And then at the end, there’s always integration in that technique. Where we where they go down. And so if they are here with me in my studio, they they go lie down there. And I go do some body tapping and I repeat some phrases from their essence that we prepared before. But then sometimes based on what happened in the session, I can tell them, okay, can you put your hands in the tech position? Well, we do integration and I would tap that body they would have that there, and I would repeat some phrases from the essence to remind them of who they really are. And I could mix a quick hit rush phrases in there to just neutralize those opposing parts in them that I intuitively at that moment just felt was needed. And so this evolved quite much later on in the journey. As I said, the initial training with you was in 2018. So that’s been evolving over the years. How I’ve been using it and becoming more comfortable. Yes. I am so sorry to interrupt you, but before I forget, I do remember in the early days when I was It was all very, very new. I was much more detailed. Like, I summarized, like, yeah, you can see on my notes, from the very, very beginning where I wrote down in detail every how I’m gonna create the line items and and all those things, but now it’s much more I can much more intuitively do it and, work laser focus much quicker. And I remember that you motivated me to be thinking like that that was quite a surprise because sometimes techniques that you learn, you can only use it in this in this strict way. So I really like that you can, blame this. You were saying that, yes, some the more you get to do it and the more you get used to activate this this main energy ingredients, when you’re programming that when you’re doing a clearance is, for instance, when you go for you were explaining on a podcast or something when you go for a run, Sometimes you’re just quickly running. You would do it like this, and you don’t even have to put their hands anymore. And I’m like, wow. We’re gonna get to that point. To that stage. So, yeah, I find I find it amazing how you can flex with it and blend it into any moment. Yes.
Alexia [00:31:20]:
No. It really sounds like you have kind of created a way of working where you’ve drawn together all of the things that you’ve learned. To create a unique marries kind of way of working. Yeah. That is, yeah, the that’s unique to you. You’re not you know, like, I get something when they might go to a hypnotherapist or something that is TFT tapping. You know, it’s always it’s a very similar experience that happens. There’s not a lot of change from hypnotherapy to topic. You know, this is very, whereas it sounds like you’re really taking all these different strands and creating this very woven tapestry of a of a way that you were does that do you think does that help you to stand out as a practitioner, something that works with women or the, you know, in terms of for your business, having your own way of working that can’t really be compared to anybody else. And that that gives you a a much more compelling reason to bring people to you. Do you do you find that in your business?
Marise [00:32:17]:
Yes. Definitely because I feel like I can handle, all kinds of different things they throw at me and I’m not skate when they come and sit and they dump a problem, I’m I have different techniques to play with. And I can even work on this with the same problem. I can work from different angles with these different techniques. So I really, really like that. And that’s, yeah, that helped me to expand the type, the range of clients that I was seeing. And the depth of how I can help one client. The journey that one client can take with me has, you know, expanded and the stuff that can buy from me has increased, basically. Yeah. For sure. For sure.
Alexia [00:33:06]:
And so you’ve talked about the continuing evolution of your business and how you worked in finance before, and now you’re thinking about going back into the corporate setting.
Marise [00:33:14]:
Yes.
Alexia [00:33:14]:
And working with And and so how you and now you’re looking at other training with Head Trash. You’ve got Head Trash Coaching and how you can continue what you’ve already been using for many, many years in an very adept and very fluid with, and it looks like it’s enabling you to continue your own evolution in business. And your own personal evolution in the work that you do. Can you can you mind just talking a little bit about that?
Marise [00:33:40]:
Absolutely. So Yeah. So I’m at the point now where I want to, add yet another branch to my business, not just families and individuals, but also bringing all of this experience and my corporate experience, bringing that all together, and to scale my business more, yeah, to work with maybe less clients, bigger contracts kind of thing and, to bring some light into the business world, into the work place. Because as we know, burnout and, mental health problems and employee absenteeism is a huge problem and it’s it’s growing it. And, I’m excited that I can bring this technique to the workplace and it’s much needed there. So yeah, for sure, I’m, very eager and excited to continue the learning with now. I did the back then in 2018, it was called the fearless birthing practitioner training. So I did that then. So I’m very excited now to amp that up to do your Head Trash Clearance coach training as well.
Alexia [00:35:03]:
So you’re gonna just jump track
Marise [00:35:06]:
Exactly.
Alexia [00:35:06]:
Expand the read it.
Marise [00:35:07]:
Take it a notch further.
Alexia [00:35:09]:
Yeah. Yeah. So you can start using it in a in a different way — Yes. — workplace. So Is there anything else you want? I’m just thinking for those maybe that are thinking about training that, you know, that mix is not very well known as the technique. And, Is there anything else that you might wanna share with them to help to maybe help them make that decision? To see if if it is right for them because I know maybe some of the questions that might be worth, we could touch on is that, even though it’s an energy psychology technique, and then some people hear the word energy, and they think, oh, is that that sounds a bit woo? Is is it do you think it’s woo? And how what do you think? Like, just hitting, taking the the woo idea head on? Like, what are your, what are your views on the woo-ness of the method?
Marise [00:35:56]:
Yes. So I have studied different methods, some quite very well methods and which I love very much. It gives me great satisfaction but not all clients are, have that kind of beliefs or or at that level of consciousness. And so I meet my clients where they are at, and I love the fact that Head Trash Clearance sounds very mild in terms of the woo factor, yet, as we know, behind the scenes or deep down once you start raising that conscious, you will there’s only one direction we are all going, and it’s woo. And so I love that it’s woo in disguise. Yes.
Alexia [00:36:47]:
Woo in disguise. I love it. Yeah.
Marise [00:36:49]:
Yes.
Alexia [00:36:53]:
Yeah. Yeah. So it means that you’re able to work with people in a wu way without them realizing that that’s what you’re doing.
Marise [00:36:59]:
Exactly. Yes.
Alexia [00:37:00]:
And and they’re still able to experience the change and the transformation. That doesn’t get in the way for that.
Marise [00:37:05]:
They get all the benefits I get the client and I still feel that I’m true to myself that I’m doing something that’s useful and that will ultimately make the world a better place, because that’s why I’m not in finance anymore, and I’m doing this kind of things. And so, yeah, that’s perfect. We are not we don’t have the whole planet already at the high rate of consciousness. It will take time and need some, approachable ways of communicating with these people. They don’t scare them off. This because for we live in a traumatized society full of triggers, the emotional, level of humanity as far as I can understand from my research and trainings is around the age of a teenager now. We are like teenagers. Our development as a species emotionally. So you gotta work with teenagers, and they don’t know what’s good for them yet. So don’t scare them off with being too woo too soon.
Alexia [00:38:12]:
I won’t get there. They will get there. And and are you, do you have any sense of, I don’t know, like, amazement sometimes. It may be the transformation that you do see in your clients, because I know I get this. I’m just wondering whether, you know, I I see some of the the change is happening with my clients, and I just get blown away by the rapidity or the speed of that change that — Yeah. — that it still blows my mind and I’ve been doing this you know, over a decade. And I I still get humbled by the work, and I’m just wondering whether that happens to you at all.
Marise [00:38:44]:
Yeah. Absolutely. Often right after a clearance, you can see immediately. The person looks different sometimes. You know, even the way they move, the way they breathe, of course, or just the insights that they get as you move through the different dimensions while they are in the tech position and you are performing the clearance first on the one side and then they’re like Okay. Nice and confused. And then you move to the opposite the opposite side to clear that, and then they are flawed And then, the insights that they’re already at that point sometimes share with you of how different they feel and that they couldn’t believe they were so stuck just 30 minutes ago that it’s like now it’s Nothing. All the more longer term results that you see where they finally do go to that Christmas holiday with their parents, and they are saying, so finally, I could sit there at the Christmas table and I could actually be grateful that I’m there with my parents and not be so triggered when they did their usual annoying irritating things again. And I my triggers just were not there anymore and you could they can enjoy life more. They can be better parents more. They can I and the sleep coaching that I do as well, I always include, an opportunity to do some emotional clearance for the parent as well? Previously, I had to outsource that. And I was so excited when finally I was training it, and I could say, you know what? I if we have emotional stuff, I can quickly do a clearance here and then. And so the ability for them to to stay calm under pressure, to face the fears in the birth. I mean, that is that’s so quick. That’s that’s rapid transformation there. Yes. So I was doing, working with a twin mom the other day she already had a baby. She was expecting twins. It was not planned. They were thinking of not having any more kids. And then Wambam, twins, and it’s not even in the families. What a shock, And so, exactly, we we could do a clearance around some of the themes. There are several themes I play there, and we could do a clearance on that. She was nice and confused. Right after. And then that same day, she wrote me back. And I told her it’s still gonna continue to process in your subconscious. Don’t go to bed late tonight. Drink enough water. And, you know, the the usual self care around everything, that you advise your clients. And she emailed me and said, I feel utterly joyful about this pregnancy now, and I couldn’t imagine that I could find you because it was my accident that she made me and she didn’t prepare at all for this birth, you know, because she was putting it off and she was extremely fearful and feeling guilty that in the beginning, she was anticipating to maybe even terminate the pregnancy was all mixed emotions around that, and it just kept her in total confusion. And then she could go on We did and vaginally book 2 twin babies. It was so beautiful. Amazing. Yeah. Yeah. And to have moments like that. Yeah. Scattered through your, weeks working with clients. It’s it’s amazing. Yes. And how you use it on yourself? The the the blocks you you face and that things you could do that you couldn’t previously do, No. It’s amazing. And observing that in yourself, how you could could stay calm under things that would usually upset you so much and I talked to my kids about it as well. For instance, when I moved into a new apartment and, I the parking situation was very difficult. I’m not I have many, many talents. Bocking is not one of them. My ex husband always said I creatively modify the the car. And, there was this annoying beeping sound coming from the car when you all reversing out in your ears all the time, and I was making me very, very anxious. While I was trying to, sweat and reverse, without bumping the car. And then the kids would be in the car, and they are 10 and 11. So I wanna keep my cool, and I wanna teach them this is how you handle annoying situations. And I would tell them girls, we gotta do maybe Mama needs to do a hit trash clearance on this BB so that it you know, so that it doesn’t trigger me. And, yeah, they and so I like to tell them these things as well so that they have that reflex of, oh, there’s stuff I can do to help myself to to not be, triggered, and I can handle life better. And I could do that clearance for me. And now I’m singing with that beef as I reverse out.
Alexia [00:44:20]:
I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. Marise, thank you so much. For sharing all of this. And I’d love to talk more about your own personal insurance journey, but maybe we’ll save that for another time. So, thank you for joining me today, and I hope that hope this conversation has been useful for anybody else that might be thinking about training in Head Trash Clearance and and all the ways that you’ve illustrated in the way that you’re using it and how you benefited from it. So thank you.
Marise [00:44:43]:
Thank you so much. It was lovely to speak to you.